Mentor’s Pre-Mediation Checklist

The mentor should determine who would assume responsibility for the following tasks;

  • Introduce party and mediator(s)
  • Explain mediation
  • Review agreement to mediate form
  • Conduct screening
  • Determine if case is appropriate for mediation
  • Ground rules
  • Lead story telling and issue identification
  • Lead problem solving
  • Lead agreement writing

The mentor should discuss the following;

  • Unique ground rules or practices
  • Transitioning from one person to the other and changing strategies during the mediation
  • Method for addressing concerns by either mentor or mentee without causing undue disruption
  • Procedure to be used to call a caucus
  • How responsibilities will be shared during the session so that   both mediators obtain “voice legitimacy”
  • How to achieve balanced involvement in the mediation
  • How to work in the same direction and keep each other on track
  • Differences in style or approach

The mentor should confirm the mentee’s availability to remain after the session to de-brief for 20 to 40 minutes. Where the de-briefing does not take place immediately following the mediation, it should be rescheduled as soon as possible within one week .

The mentee should;

  • Arrive at least  one hour  before the mediation is scheduled to occur
  • Provide the mentor with a blank copy of each form to be completed
  • Provide the mentor with a copy of each completed Mentor Portfolio form prior to the mediation and discuss expectations for the current mediation
  • Complete “Section I: Skill Development Goals” of the Mentee Portfolio form in collaboration with the mentor prior to the mediation
  • Inform the mentor if the Mentee Evaluation form is needed in less than one week.

Before the mediation, the mentee and mentor should discuss;

  • The areas in which the mentee wants experience and feedback
  • The nature of the case and types of issues the case may deal with, according to information in the case file
  • The portions of the mediation for which each will take responsibility
  • Any unique ground rules or practices
  • Transitioning from one person to the other and changing strategies during the mediation
  • Methods for addressing concerns by either mentor or mentee without causing undue disruption
  • The procedure to be used to call a caucus
  • How responsibilities will be shared during the first session so that both mediators obtain “voice legitimacy” early in the first session
  • How the mentee and mentor will achieve balanced involvement in the mediation
  • A strategy for how to work in the same direction and keep each other on track
  • Differences in style and approach
  • Whether the mentee needs to serve as a drafter of the mediated agreements if agreement is reached.